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Saturday, May 26, 2012

My Connections to Play


Children need the freedom and time to play. Play is not a luxury. Play is a necessity”
Quoted by: Kay Redfield Jamison


“Play keeps us vital and alive. It gives us an enthusiasm for life that is irreplaceable. Without it, life just doesn’t taste good”
Quoted by: Lucia Capocchione


Growing up for me it was my sister and me, along with my 2 male (1st) cousins. Many of the times we played it was inside with one another. Our parents worked, while our grandparents watched over us until our parents came home. My grandparents weren’t too excited about us going outside to play with other children. They believed it was enough of us to play with one another. I can remember times we made forts out of sheets, my sister and I would play cook with our kitchen set feeding our male cousins and times where we traveled make believe with our baby dolls in our make believe cars. We use to have so much fun with one another. Our grandparents nor parents had to worry about us getting into other trouble because we were busy inside playing with one another. My grandfather encouraged us to play with one another and taught us that we don’t need a crowd of people to have fun.
Observing the way children play today compared to when I grew up is totally different. They are more into electronics and games instead of old school play. For example my younger sisters are 9 and 11 and do not know how to hula-hoop or play hop scotch. They can barely jump rope. Today’s society is more relaxed and less interested in actual play.
I enjoyed play during my years, and I still do years later. I understand how important play/bonding can be to a child. I encourage my toddler to play every day. When she comes home from school I make sure that I take at least 30 minutes of my time to play with her. Although I’m a matured adult, I still enjoy playing. I’m a BIG KID AT HEART!